Dating 101: Common Turn-Offs Single Women Must Know
Sometimes you dampen a man's desire... without even realizing it.
By Cosmopolitan Photo: iStockphoto.com/Jason Lugo Updated: Oct 20, 2008
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No
doubt there are countless things you do that turn your
man into a lust-fueled fool. But on the flip side, there are also
subtle behaviors that abate your allure faster than it takes a pair of
Hollywood lovebirds to get engaged. Here are a handful of
them:
Catty Chatter"On
the drive home from my friend's housewarming party, the girl I was
dating -- past tense! -- started bad-mouthing the other women she met
that night," says Thomas, 30. "She literally had something nasty to say
about every female there. By the time she finished her rant, I was
like, either all of my friends suck or this chick is an insecure idiot.
I decided it was the latter and got rid of her." And there you have it:
Nothing turns a
dude's stomach like a woman-to-woman criticizing session.
Nothing turns a
dude's stomach like a woman-to-woman criticizing session.
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Nothing turns a
dude's stomach like a woman-to-woman criticizing session.
Watching
you
smooth scented lotion all over your bare legs? Priceless. But you
couldn't even pay a guy to eyewitness the ugly side of getting pretty
-- think clipping your toenails, extracting a blackhead, flossing those
back teeth. Just ask Walter, 28: "Maybe it's not totally PC, but I want
my girl to be sugar and spice and everything nice," he admits.
In-His-Face FlirtingSure,
being playful with another man may score you a free drink or get you
out of a speeding ticket. But by the umpteenth hair flip and giggle,
your guy's wondering just how "friendly" you would get if he weren't
right next to you. Allow Liam, 19, to elaborate: "My last girlfriend
knew how to work a room," he says. "But
too often her flirting would get out of
control, like she actually wanted the other guys.
too often her flirting would get out of
control, like she actually wanted the other guys.
Before long, I started to view her antics as cheap rather than
charming."
too often her flirting would get out of
control, like she actually wanted the other guys.
Reprinted with permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.
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